In life, everybody has their share of good days and not-so-good days. Today's post is all about the latter. Personally, I don't think I handle my bad days as well as I should. If my day starts off on the wrong foot, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth from that moment on. Suddenly I'm expecting everything else to go wrong and because I'm in that mindset, the day is unsurprisingly full of slip-ups. That's how powerful your thoughts are. I need to stop letting one negative experience overrule the rest of my day. Just because a day starts off unlucky, doesn't mean it has to end that way.
1. Acknowledge Your Emotions
When you're upset, you tend to brush your feelings aside. You try to suppress the embarrassment, frustration, betrayal or disappointment and in doing so, allow the feeling to have a lasting effect. Sometimes shedding some tears makes all the difference. Instead of letting the emotion linger inside, cry it out.
2. Connect With Others
Socialising and getting together with friends is the perfect distraction for a bad day. You can always count on those closest to you to know how to make you smile. If something is still bothering you and you can't seem to shake it from your conscious then I'm sure the group wouldn't mind if you shared it. Everybody needs to vent every once in a while.
3. Try Being Productive
Tackle the chores and responsibilities you've been avoiding for quite some time, such as tidying your room or cleaning your wardrobe. By getting things done, you'll be able to take your mind away from your worries as well as work towards the most rewarding outcome possible.
4. Get Active
Exercise is really important, especially if you're not in the best state of mind. Keep it fast paced so that you can refrain from dwelling too much on negative thoughts. By the end of the workout you should feel refreshed and ready to take on the rest of the day.
5. Do Something Nice
If you're really feeling down, doing a good deed for someone else is sure to lift your spirits. It may not magic all your problems away, but it will definitely leave you feeling more accomplished than you did before.
6. Relax
Take some time out of your day to stress-relieve. Sit down and watch a film or run yourself a bubble bath. Adding a little bit of relaxation into your day is sure to boost your mood and just because your day hasn't been going to plan, doesn't mean you're undeserving of the treatment.
I hope you found this post useful. If you think that a bad day is a bad day and nothing can change that, think again. Sometimes breaking out of that mindset is all you need to turn your not-so-good day around.
Today has been awful for me, but your post made me feel so much better!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that Lydia. I'm glad my post helped though. Tomorrow will be better, I promise! AnnieChanie
DeleteI love this post, it has really put a smile on my face x
ReplyDeleteThanks Chelsea! I'm happy to hear that! Your comment has me smiling now! AnnieChanie
DeleteThis is a great post :) great advice, these are all so true and work!
ReplyDeleteKirsty
www.corinneandkirsty.com
Thank you Kirsty! I'm glad you think so! :-) AnnieChanie
DeleteThis is fab , great work
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment Sarah! That's really nice of you to say! AnnieChanie
DeleteSometimes when you're having a bad day you can get absorbed in it.. it's lovely that you've written a post on tips on how we can try and improve our mood.. Exercise always help me feel better when i'm having a bad day
ReplyDeleteRonnie
www.veronicabizzarri.com
xx
I completely agree with you. On a bad day, it's so easy to get trapped in your negative thoughts. Exercise is definitely a great way to relieve some stress. Thanks for you comment Ronnie! AnnieChanie
DeleteFabulous post, I’m going to save this and refer back to it on bad days, there are some wonderful tips there! When I’m having a bad day, I tend to try and be productive but things like acknowledging your emotions and connecting with friends helps me too, thanks for the reminder! Sending best wishes for a great day! :-) xx
ReplyDeleteHelen | Helen’s Fashion, Beauty & Lifestyle Blog
That makes me so happy to hear. Thank you for such a lovely comment Helen! Sending you best wishes back! :-) AnnieChanie
Delete